You do you boo


Today's post if going to be a little bit different today. This one is going to be about why you shouldn't live to please other people and you should do your own thing and not care what others think.

If you are a people pleaser stop. As nice as it is to try and make everyone happy all the time, it is practically impossible. It's not your job to make everyone happy 100% of the time, yeah it's a nice thing to do and it avoids conflicts a lot of the time but it's not healthy for you. Not only this but it makes the people who you're constantly trying to make happy expect it from you, and possibly others too.

It's okay to be selfish. It's okay to want different things to other people. It's okay to get mad and upset.

 You do not have to be nice, and perfect and bubbly all the time just to make sure other people are happy, fair enough if you want to be these things just because you do, but if you're doing it to please people then you really shouldn't feel obligated to do it.

It's okay to want people to be happy but you need to realise it's not your job and you should focus on your own happiness and not other peoples.

Since I have stopped being a people pleaser I feel so much more comfortable in myself, I have started to feel more comfortable making decisions on my own and I don't feel like I'm acting 24/7.

If you do you boo and not focus on other people's happiness I guarantee you will feel a bit better in yourself. And After all, it is your life and your happiness.


Do you try to keep everyone happy all the time? If so, tell me if you're gonna focus on you for a bit and then let me know how it feels in the comments!


Thank you for reading,


Mandy x

6 comments

  1. Such a great blog post, it's so important to just please yourself instead of trying to please everyone xxx

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    1. I agree whole heartedly. I think its so hard trying to please anyone if you don't put yourself first and are happy with yourself! xxx

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  2. I whole agree with you!
    I used to be those people who used to please a lot it wasn't easy being bit selfish but like you said it's important to take care our self! xo

    www.brokebutflawless.blogspot.com

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    1. Indeed it is, glad you agree! xx

      Mandy x

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  3. I love this post. It's so relatable! It's hard to be happy all the time! Xx

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